Believing is Achieving. If you do not believe you can be a part of something, then you will never be a part of it. You need to believe you can succeed because it is at that point that you can succeed else you already lost before you began the race.
Having different conversations with people, and I realize that being rich in self believe is important before you can be rich in money. Any doubt trap or second guessing is enough to cut the journey short. People just put their entirety on the government rather than shaping a way for themselves and this is because they believe the government is responsible for their life and their well being.
If you cannot be confidently believe in your plans, your dreams and believes, who would believe in it for you. Business partners or investors actually line up to you because of the confidence you have in what you hold. The presence of confidence and/or the lack of it is very contagious. Be certain about your ability to figure things out, and not blind optimism because while you might not always have the answers, having the conviction that they can be found is important. If you do not believe first, then no one will believe for you. After you believe, then you can start taking action to make it a reality. You do not validation from anyone to confirm if you are able to do something or not.
Because we just discussed believing in yourself doesn't mean that everything will be easy and peaceful, majority of the time, it will be hard. If you are looking for an easy part to success then you are just going to possibly not get any success and it just shows that you are weak. Never run from hardship, embrace it with the believes that challenges are a price when greatness is in the picture. When I say hardship, I do not mean poverty because a lot of people aren't doing anything or are just moving round a circle and they get poverty as reward but they instead believe it is hardship that brings good tidings when it is over.
If you decide to start something instead of staying in one position, then you should be interested in the process and the progress instead of the finish line. Progress is important for success as small wins come together to become a compound success. Not seeing immediate result is something that can make a lot of people lose hope especially when they start something they think will bring money immediately. Look at the progress at every time and you will win, look at the result and you might fail even before you start at all.
On a final note, be ready to learn at all time. Never assume you know everything because you cannot know everything as one person. We are made up of several people, believe system, custom and culture. Each shaping our lives in different way having their pros and cons but in all, learning to pick the right one and letting go of the wrong one.
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