Most of the time we get so worked up about the things we cannot do or achieve and we focus all our attention and energy on them, forgetting that there are always some things we do effortlessly. Some tasks that seem quite challenging and difficult for others, we handle them with ease like it's nothing.
During our most trying time and moment, do we remember to appreciate ourselves and give ourselves some accolades for those seemingly easy tasks that appears difficult for others?
We often forget to do that, rather we channel all our energy on the ones we simply cannot get a hang of just yet and we dwell on them and beat ourselves up when it doesn't come out quickly and easy as we want it.
And it seems the more we try, the more difficult and impossible it seems.
It's really okay to give ourselves the break it deserves, it doesn't mean we can't do those things neither does it mean we are failures. Even if we might actually fail at first trial, we can always take a break, unwind and try again.
But what we shouldn't do is dwell and focus all our energy on the things we simply cannot achieve just yet.
We should give ourselves time and more experience to be able to carry successfully most of the challenging and difficult situations placed before us.
We should also remember that we can do just about anything if we really put our mind to it and work towards them.
We might not get it immediately but if we keep persisting and ofcourse with the right attitude and mindset, we can achieve anything.
Just keep believing and keep striving.
And please amidst the storm, always remember that you've done enough and you too deserve some accolades.
22 November, 2024