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Life is a dynamic thing, always changing according to circumstances. Not all of these conditions are in accordance with what we want. Therefore, we must always be ready to face the worst things in our lives and lives. From various sources that I have read about dealing with life, I have several tips for dealing with life which sometimes changes without us wanting it. Through this post I want to share these tips, namely:
Learn to survive in solitude
Life is one thing that can change at any time. If today we live with someone we love, it is not impossible that tomorrow that person will leave us and in the end we will live alone. Therefore learning to survive in loneliness is one thing that is needed.
Make yourself happy before making others happy.
Making yourself happy is a must, because we cannot possibly make other people happy if our own lives are not happy. If someone said, "The important thing is that you are happy", I would say that is a lie. Because happiness given by someone who is unhappy cannot possibly achieve perfect happiness.
Practice not being easily irritated
As social creatures, we are always in the midst of other people who have different backgrounds and views on life. In relationships, we cannot force other people to do what we want, and sometimes other people's attitudes can offend our lives. Therefore, learn not to be easily offended.
Enjoy the happiness that exists in this moment
Happiness is not about getting everything we want, because if happiness is what we want then it is very difficult for us to get it. Desire is something that has no limits, so don't enjoy happiness according to your wishes but be happy with what you currently have.
Make difficulties as teachers who will guide you to be better.
Many successful people have been forged by various difficulties. From these difficulties they learn a lot about how to overcome problems. Never complain about the difficulties we are currently facing, because there are better lessons from these difficulties if we are willing to learn.
Thank you to everyone who has stopped by my post this time. Hope it is useful.