By Now dreemers must have known that their initial plot failed to build the magical garden that Amani desired and this is because they think so hard but failed to think like the creator of the garden itself. Don't think hard, don't think far, just think outside the box , like Amani would.
Let me pin out a few points you might have skipped. Dreemsteem started by saying You may like to start by merging a plant with a dreemie card. This was the easiest among other clues and by now everyone knows this. The second clue was "family is the key" and so far, only the mint are considered as family (legally married ) the others are just clan and tribe, unless they have some union , they remain clan. And if family is the key, we all need to assume characters that fit into this family position, probably blend by some characteristics and family mustn't come from the same vine. If you've studied agriculture in school, you should know about grafting and this is done to improve the productivity of a plant and grafting is done only on those plants that are unproductive with plants that are productive. There's always a need that the other can fulfill and that's where the blending starts. I'm saying too much but I am trying to make you think like Amani.
The card below is the dreemie card, its major duty for now is to make the plants magical by transforming them into characters that exhibit some characteristics. After that, we don't know its use, maybe until the story is over where it would need to travel back. So merging characters with a dreemie card is of no use now, I don't know what the result will be, we need to make a family and that's no duty of a dreemie card.
So now focus on not similarities, grafting doesn't come by blending similarities. It comes by finding solutions to that which is not productive with one that is productive and that's what Amani is doing. Listing their characteristics for you to think and know which blends well. Dreemsteem asked that you trust her judgment, she's Amani and you can think like dreemsteem will think, that's what the post is all about. No hard thoughts and algebra, just put yourself in a garden with character that has life and exhibit some characteristics. How would you blend them to finally see themselves as family? Even the plants in the garden, the mint, are finding it hard with their daughter because they(the family) fail to accept her differences.
I don't want to spill too much that I know. But enjoy this and ponder over it and if you've been confused throughout the game. Go back and read all the posts slowly, don't be in a rush, read and tick anything that strikes a meaning. Shalom dreemers.
Image gotten on my dreemport page for the game