Hello everyone
As usual to meet again on my blog today, parents think to me personally they are like angels to me, fighting desperately to raise us from pregnancy, giving birth until they educate and raise us from childhood to adulthood, I have never thought until now to entrust my parents to a nursing home, so far my parents are about 60 years old, certainly not an adult age anymore, My parents are old, we as children happen to be all male and we are all married and have a small family, the struggle of my parents since we were born so far I think there is no less or less in taking care of their children.
I couldn't imagine that we had to decide to send our parents to a nursing home, when we were young my father was struck by one of the mental illnesses that couldn't do anything for us, but that's where I saw my mother struggling to raise the children by herself complaining and feeling tired when she had to slam her bones in our father's place. In raising her children, my mother held two jobs that were quite heavy in the shoulder to fight so that her children when they grew up became useful children for everyone.
So far our parents have remained around us because we are also married not too far from where we live, fortunately my sister also happens to get married in one area, which means that until now my sister lives with my mother, so for me personally, the nursing home is not the best solution to entrust our parents there, Even though there are workers there who take care of 24 hours with professionals, our parents do not feel happy, they consider it as the duty of a job, they do not work from the heart but only because of the money they are looking for, it would be better if you still have a complete family, more beautiful you take care of and take care of them with you.
Do you know the attitude of our parents when they are old, their attitude is exactly the same as a baby who likes to whine in the slightest thing, indeed I have to admit that taking care of parents is not easy, of course it is very complicated, if we look back when we are still like babies, of course our parents take care of day and night so that their children are well maintained, He lacks sleep and lacks the hours of rest to raise us, our parents do not care about his health, which is prioritized for the sake of his children to grow up.
I also can't imagine people who want to leave their parents in nursing homes for a certain reason, just because of the childish attitude of parents even though our parents' services cannot be paid with money, do you know that the law of karma exists, I strongly believe that karma will apply at any time, which is clear if we don't treat our parents when they are old, Of course, when we are old, we will be treated exactly the same as we treat our parents by our children later.To be honest, our family of five is not too luxurious, but we will try to collect a certain amount for our parents' daily needs.
conclusion
Take care of our parents while they are still around, if they have left us first, we will never be able to see their smiles and laughter again.
Thank you very much to all friends who have taken a little time to read this post of mine, hopefully it can be useful for all of us.
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