Whenever we are not even clear about something, the best we can do is to ask. Many people don't even ask, they just want to go straight to the point. He was a reconcilia night at the detriment of others. They don't even care what might be wrong or right.
All that they want to do is to make sure that everything that they do work. There is no two way out of it. There's no other way out to it's going to work and to work. This set of people have a very strong mind, which I really admire.