The ability to see things differently is not even an option.
You don't have any choice but to have the ability to see things in a different way, because it is when you see things in a different way that you are able to carve a niche for yourself. If you see things the way everybody sees it, there is probability that you won't be able to get the grips. Of things. And you will not even be able to understand the perspective at which people are even talking from.
I mean whenever people are trying to talk about their pain, their joy, things that they are passing through. If your abilities to stick things in one single way is permanent with you, there is every chance that she will not be able to. This time will time that person is actually seeing. So is the boys down to the ability to see things from different ways, different perspective and possibilities. That is when you can be able to understand that OK, what this person is saying is even possible in the 1st place. Then you would know how to tackle such a scenario or case.