This is never going to happen

You shouldn't judge

a book by its cover is what they say, some say. If it comes to books they might be right since not many (self) publishers invest in a cover that fits what is hiding inside. Is this done on purpose or are they just taking the easiest way out?
Do you ever read what a book is about? That text at the back of the cover before you buy? I always wonder who wrote it. Just like that cover that piece of info frequently doesn't cover the story which is quite disappointing.

Today, I wrote what I did not want to do. I summed up all the reasons why I wouldn't join the party, I am the worst candidate to do the job. To my surprise I received an enthusiastic answer: You are an interesting person, and the right one to do this.

Can be, I thought, but if it's up to me and no matter what they want this is never going to happen!

Btw, A human is not a book. I'm fine if it comes to ignoring the cover but not if it comes to what hides inside. Bad energy, negativity, fake smiles, bad intentions are visible and noted within a minute by us, it's where instinct comes around the corner. Instinct can be ignored but it's safer to trust your intuition and declare it your best friend instead of your worst enemy. There's a reason why we have it, and do not fall for "reason" or that great camouflage that covers up the real person. If we listen we might be better off.

Ask yourself why it is that you always bump into the same kind of people, always find the biggest obstacles on your road and why you have to deal with the same problems over and over.
Can it be you ignore your instinct? That red flag - the tiny voice inside - that warns and tells you to step on the break because driving through a red light isn't cool but the most stupid thing one can do?