I wasn't really familiar with the meaning of financial security but then after looking it up and checking for the meaning I believe it means I won’t have to stress about finding money and i can confidently plan for my future.
Endless love on the other hand, means me being loved unconditionally by my spouse and family, without any room for hatred or terms and conditions.
Love is actually a deep feeling—it brings about peace and inner joy that even financial security may not entirely fulfill. But let’s be real , being financially secure is still a big part of keeping love going. No matter how much people say they don’t love or care about the money, it is still needed to build a stable environment for love to grow.
I don’t think anyone wants to be in a situation where they’re with someone who can’t provide anything or lacks the potential to financially support themselves. That’s why I’ve come to the conclusion that you can’t just choose one—you need both financial security and love to make things work.
If I’m financially secure, I can take proper care of the people I love. I’m also aware that having alot or enough money can attract people who only care about what they can get from me, and not because they genuinely love me. That’s where endless love comes in handy. If people love you really and truly, they’ll appreciate and love you for you and show genuine affection towards you, not just act nice because of money.
When people only love you because you have money, things can go wrong as soon as you stop providing them with that financial support. But when there’s true and endless love, they’ll understand your situation and stick with you, regardless of whether you can help them financially at that particular time or not. That’s what sets real love apart from those who are just there for what they can gain from you.
Over the years, I’ve realized that both money and love are necessary to make things work. If you’re financially secure, you can provide for your partner or family without the constant stress of worrying about how to meet up with their needs. This makes love becomes stronger and also strengthens family bond. I have always had this mindset of dating a girl without spending on her but then that hasn’t helped. Most of those girls just keep going away and the relationship most times goes down the drain. Overtime , I have had to change that perceptive about money and relationships and like they say, “Love alone is not enough.” I wouldn’t advise anyone to marry or move in with a person who isn’t financially stable no matter how much love is there, because in the end, financial struggles will definitely create alot of problems.
Money makes life easier and helps to clear obstacles. If you don’t have enough of it, you’re bound to face alot of challenges and bumps on the way , especially in a country like mine, where surviving is hard enough on its own.
I know you might say i am selfish for wanting both, but at the end of the day, it’s not just about choosing one over the other. They both work together and we all need a balance of both in our lives. When you have enough money, you can take care of those you care about, and when the love is real and endless, it adds meaning to everything and sums everything up. We actually need both to keep life running smoothly, especially when things get tough.
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