Are you a man? Proceed... Do all these expenses yourself. And do four marriages!!
~ Sunnah is remembered only on four marriages..? The intellect stops working on the rest of the saints
She often did not make requests to her father because her father was already in debt while making her wedding expenses and dowry.
After the engagement, many boys kept coming and his mother was tired while giving hospitality. But still with an empty pocket and a smile on her face, she used to feed everyone who came with the best food and send them away happily.
Sometimes Nand, sometimes Jethani, sometimes Chachi Sas and sometimes Mami Sas. They used to come in separate groups to give equal respect to each relationship!!
In such a situation, when her father came home in the evening, she would sit quietly next to him and press his head, as if she was giving courage to her father or wanting to say that she is sorry, Baba, because of me you are forced to take a loan. !!
Fixing the date of marriage has become a festival, girls do not know how many people will come, apart from their food and drink, they have to buy clothes for everyone whether there are 5 people or 50!!
Then 10 servants surround the girl's father on the procession and ask, "How many servants should come?" What will he say?
If he says 100, then the answer is 200, then it is our own relatives, then friends of the local boy...!! If nothing else, 400 people will have to be brought along........!!
What will the girl's father say now? Don't bring I have no money...???
Then in the obsolete system, on the day of the procession, 2 pots of food should also be sent along with the girl, dowry should also be prepared and left.....!!
Muslim brothers... This is how a daughter leaves home...!! Now what will be the value of it in the in-laws, we often keep hearing this!!
Please don't do this, break these rituals by which a father should repent so that he does not have a daughter...😥
Leave these Hindu customs that daughters, seeing the poverty of their parents, remove the thought of their marriage from their hearts...!!
Try marrying your son with simplicity and bringing your daughter-in-law, send your daughter away with the same simplicity, you will get peace...!!
And for your information, these daughters are not as lovely as Hazrat Fatima (RA), nor are these sons as honorable as Hazrat Ali (RA)...!!
Make life easy for the coming generation!! 🙏
I say to boys, don't take dowry!!
Pity your future daughter who may be as worried about your bad situation tomorrow as your future wife is today....!!
