The confidence in me doesn't give room for self Pity
As a child growing up i found myself with grandma and whenever her friends comes around her they will ask her oh! Which of your grandchild and she would reply Udo's daughter of course you know she died after giving birth to this one's immediate younger brothers yes they were twins and then the friend will ask again oh sorry but what about the boys she said they also died some months after their mother
You know since then even as a child i shunned the emotions of self pity but rather people prefer to pity for me though it was tough growing without both parents because my Dad did the worse by joining them despite it was not his fault he could not stand it after the boys followed their mother he also joined them funny but sad leaving me and my elder sister with grandma and she suffered and took care of us may her soul continue to rest well but grandma died very old may i live like her saying more than may be suffering on earth hahaha
People always piity me whenever they saw me you know village things but i don't pity myself because grandma gave me all i wanted then do i say that is the reason i don't have emotional pity maybe
Even though am grown remembering and missing them i cried not knowing mother and my boys but can only struggle to remember Dad's face most times puts me in trauma but no self pity
You see life without self Pity improved my life a lot if not you wouldn't see me here infact life without self Pity is the highest thing i have ever done to myself
I didn't give room for eeh! no Mum, no Day no brothers eeh! Who will help me move forward to achieve my goals though it wasn't easy for me even people with parents not all finds it easy that's why for me no self Pity emotions
Thanks for reading my post i know you must have learn one or two things see you next time ❤️❤️🙏🙏
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