Happy New Year, everyone; welcome to the new year, where people always have a new year, new me, and end up with their old lifestyle or even worse lifestyle. I don't think one should wait for the new year to resolve certain things.
I can't wait for the new year to have a resolution, except I realized during the last month that I have developed a certain character that I need to change from, and that is when I can call it a resolution. Although I don't write it down on paper as a reminder, cause I am the one with the character, I should know when I have changed or not.
What Are The Things That I Did In 2024, That I Won't Be Doing In 2025
There are two things I don't think I will be doing again. Over caring for people and procrastination.
In 2024, I was too caring that it was causing me my happiness. There is this saying that over-caring people are the most hurt people, that saying is not a lie. I think I was too caring that people started taking it for granted.
Even a friend of mine has to walk up to me and tell me to my face, all this care you are giving to people, if it's so that they will love you, you are wasting your time. Stop showing that you care too much, and at times you will be acting as if you are our mother. You need to stop, as I didn't visit you. Did you die? This was someone I took very good care of when she was sick, and all these words were falling out of her mouth because I was angry that she didn't visit me when I was in the hospital.
I didn't tell her anything, I just locked up. I felt hurt, and I made my decision that I wouldn't be caring for anybody again. Even if you are dying and I have something very important that I'm doing, I won't leave it for them again. I have already started the practice last year but, it's not strong, sometimes it waves like a sea.
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But since December ,it has become strong and funny how it's the same people who complained that am too caring that are still complaining that I have changed. The main shocker is this new year's own. I usually call them to wish them a happy new year. Well, guess what? Yes, you guess right. I didn't call anybody, just my family and few friends that have always stood by me. That's how I tend to keep it going. Procrastination is a big disease. I have postponed doing many things that I could have used to get money, but no more this year again.
What Changes Are Mine Planning To Enact In The New Year?
I have always been saving from my salary, no matter how small it is. I intend to continue this year again, but this time around, I will not just save but invest the money in something that will help me grow financially.
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