Most people underate this words, thinking it is life, we geto to experience it one way or ther other from any person or anything but this is what transform a person into a different person either good or bad. I have seen so many people that were disappointed in career wise and marital lifestyle but still kept on being good while other that were disappointed in changed the their mindset and are really Cold now.
My most painful experience with disappointment when i was little was when my uncle promised to fly me abroad but failed to fulfill this promise. I felt it deep, because we do watch a lot of movies and hear a lot of fantasies about traveling out. Then it was like travelling abroad means getting to heaven, looking at how the place get beautiful during winter the several parks and locations to go and several things to do.
Another experience i had with disappointment was my spiritual life. I grew up in a religious country and from a very religious home but never for once did i take things seriously until recently when i started having some godly encounters and everything started changing for good and i felt alive once again. I felt like lighten out the burden of my heart, the feeling of being free. Although i have some friends that don’t believe in religious activities but me personally i do, because this is how i get to overcome the spirit of burden and guilt from me.
Being a Man without money is a big disappointment on it own, but man can never feel disappointed because we tend to distract our minds with either drinks, friends or ladies, some even go extreme to smoking, but personally I believe the best solution is self improvement, then a man can boldly say he has achived a lot of things to himself even though it might not be his full expectations but he has made progress to himself.
I have experienced disappointment in academics, family, business and loved ones and trust me it wasn’t an easy encounter, but i had to put my self back in place and muscle through the pain to be a better person, because i know having this experience will give me the potential to developing deeper wisdom on how to live and survive this life because i know life cannot always be fair but we must continue growing regardless of what we are told or what ever experience we have had.
I try as much as possible to avoid disappointment in my life journey but there is no way i can completely abstain from it, this is what makes me stronger and shapes me into a better man. Although I don’t handle failures and disappointment all that great but i am sure i maintain the trust in myself that nothing can shatter me. We all have our expectations,
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