Blessed mid week to you all my friends here and beyond.
Today many people are facing what they are facing today because of what someone close to them did correctly or wrongly. I have heard many preach so much about generational causes but say little about generational blessings. For those who don't know much about this let me explain a little. Many people especially in the African setting believes so much on this that's why most times many families when they notice a particular trend which they are not so much at home with tend to organize what's called family deliverance in other to denounce those practices of the father's which is not consistent with what they presently believe in.
Coming to the topic of the day, in the present time people tend to associate with people well based on the laid down pattern of their parents for instance, a child may gain favour from someone because his parents were also good to him at one point or the other, this also transcends to the negative too, if the parents didn't do well to a person he also tries to transfer the aggression to the kids too.
In all, it is best every animal leaves in his own territory. There are kids who sees beyond what the parents have done, who are just truthful and descent not minding if the parents are bad when it comes to human relations. Those kids don't deserve to be paid back with the evil from their parents. Human relationship grows and some people have mastered the act of relating well with people despite all.
To this everyone should be given a chance in other to express themselves the way they are not concluding people based on the experience from their parents. If we keep doing this people may be forced to create a world or system of their own whereby everyone one will be force to associate with them. Just like when you talk about the OSU traditional system operational in some parts in my country, these set of people didn't make themselves OSU but because their forefathers where in this shoe people relate with them with that eye even when they themselves don't believe in the practices. Many of them then where forced to create their own system and are extremely wealthy today to the point that the known Osus buy their way into associating with them.
When everyone is given a chance to be himself it becomes so easy to predict if someone is of a bad attitude or not. Many things can help someone develop in attitude even more than his parents even though his parents where bad. In this modern age, the way of exposure is totally different as knowledge keeps increasing by the day. It is someone who deliberately gives himself not to learn that will end up not learning anything. One can also chose to walk away from his parents way of live by acting in a more positive manner.
As a way of conclusion, let everyone carry his cross as things are already mean in the society so no need of adding another person's burden on the innocent children abeg. Thank you for reading through my blog as this serves as my entry to the hive learners second edition contest for this week.