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We live in a crazy world, believe it or not the world is going crazy more and more, bad behaviour is now becoming the new normal.
Many things is just not right with the generation. This is just why we see people adjusting to fit in the abnormal world. People are actually having a lot of Toxic people around them because they are getting used to them as a norm, the world is getting used to their behaviours as the new normal.
Some people have so much gotten entangled in a toxic relationship to the extent of not having the will to let them go again, they have been so into fighting and Reconciliation, Badmouthing and Gaslighting.
Some people are just tied to them because of financial benefits or many of the traumatic connections.
A toxic person is someone whose behavior is consistently harmful, damaging, or destructive to themselves or other people.
Many a time i see people around the becoming increasingly aggressive, violent and ill mannered. In Nigeria here they sometimes called themselves Marlians or Woke people. They exhibit several toxic characters like: Dishonesty (lying, cheating, and deceiving people just for their selfish reasons)
Many examples of Toxic behaviour of people in relationships nowadays is that they can't stay faithful to one partner.
They will even call you names like: reverend father, churchy, understanding boyfriends or Girlfriends, mumu and many more names for being faithful to a partner. It is now a normal thing for A married Man or Woman to have several concubines or lemme put it as Girlfriends or boyfriends.
Let's not even talk about the ones who aren't married, they are the worst with changing partners like clothes.
Narcissistic behaviour: They prioritise themselves (their need, feelings and desires above others)
Nowadays we have a lot of Narcissist who only think about themselves, other people can go to hell.
Lack of accountability; They mostly lack sense of responsibility and therefore they don't like being accountable for their actions instead they shift blames and rather look for excuses to cover up.
They Manipulate people, they have no emotional control and they are Judgemental in every possible ways.
All this above characters are found in a toxic person and it's just very unfortunate most people see this as the new normal.
What is really more baffling is that people are getting used to people who exhibit such characters.
The social media is really part of what has been used as a tool to spread such toxicity, many so called influencer would post a lot of stuffs that makes toxicity looks very normal.
The other day I was on twitter and then a so called feminist was like;
Only a foolish girl would have only one boyfriend in this Tpain Era: have them for different occasions
Immediately I saw the tweet, I saw several retweets, bookmarks and other people wildly in support of such stupid and dumb statement.
Also Cyber Bullying too is becoming increasingly popular in Nigeria here, people now see harassment and intimidating others as a normal thing, we now have people who will come around bad-mouthing and harassing people online without anyone putting them to caution and regulation.
But how can we really stop people from being with toxic people or the Toxic people themselves from being toxic;
✅People need to set boundaries and expectations
✅ Encourage a form of Empathy and active listening, no aggressive or narcissistic behaviour.
✅The Government can regulate the types of post, or vet the influencers. It can be policies that addresses toxic behaviours.
✅ The government can promote influencer and role models who demonstrate healthy behaviours.
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