MY GROWTH AS A SOCIAL BEING

in voilk •  4 months ago

    Would you call yourself a social person or not? As a social person, how are you able to keep up with your activities and maintain your social life? As a non-social person, are you comfortable with it? Is there any way it has affected your relationship with others?



    The human person is naturally a social being. As a matter of fact, it absolutely impossible for humans to survive without any form of socialisation. If it be the case then that someone is considered an unsocial person, the person in question is only unsocial to the best of his/her capability; but as far as that individual lives, there are some sort of socialisation that he or she cannot certainly do without.

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    As an individual, I would certainly not refer to myself as an unsocial person. I might not be a hyper laud person, but I am a type that loves associating a lot. Due to my personality, I am a type that easily make friends. I make friend with almost every individual I encounter, most especially the female ones😀. I know some would have condemned me to be a womanizer in your mind, but that is certainly not the case. I think it is just natural for men to get attracted to women and women to men, and that is certainly the reason behind me making more of female friends😜.
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    As a growing child, I was not always like this; I was a shy kind of boy. I find it hard to approach people first, but when they finally approach, I will become as free as a bird around them, the whole shy nature will all of a sudden disappear. Another prominent fact about my childhood social life is the fact that I was very shy of girls. As a teenager, I never for once summoned the courage to hold a girl by her hand or hang my hand over a girl's shoulder. It was that bad. Apart from my class mates, my sister and some female friends who I am really close to, I was unable to relate with random girls at ease.
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    The improvements in my social life are shocking even to me. All of a sudden I escaped from being a timid young guy to becoming a hyper social guy. The most shocking of it all is how free I have become around ladies, I have grown to the extent that I can begin a conversation with a lady I have never met in my life. That for me is really amazing, and only my childhood friends will understand why I said so.
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    Generally speaking, I live a very social life. I got to make new friends, communicate with people at ease and mingle with almost every one I come across. But I have got just one problem, keeping long distance relationship. The only long distance relationship I have successfully kept is that of my girlfriend. I would have loved to say more about her amazing personality, but that will be topic for another day. Given my inability to keep long distance relationship, I have lost so many friends than I can remember. It is always the case that I leave behind every friend I made once I am leaving a particular location. Sometimes, I even find it difficult to maintain relationship with friends that are in the same city with me just because they are quite distanced from me. The fact that I have that fault of mine is a good news, and I am working towards getting rid of it with all seriousness.

    It's your your boy @ernesto6402. Thank you so much for finding time to go through my post. One love ✌️

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