Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. Love is no doubt beautiful, though lately it has become transactional, and it is hard to find genuine love these days, but that does not mean it stopped to exist, but like I said before, it became very difficult to find. There are only a few that make you vulnerable, as you will have to let your guard down if you really want to do It is right, and love is one of those things that makes you vulnerable, exposes you to harm, but you still do it anyway, hoping the harm does not come, but in most cases it does, and when it does, it is brutal because you have let your guard down and are completely exposed.
Love comes with mixed feelings; today you are happy and grateful your other half is in your life, and tomorrow you are regretting meeting them; that is how difficult love can be. If you really want to do love, you must be willing to go through the thick and thin that comes with it; there are challenges, there are fights, and there are quarrels, and if you don't have what it takes, it is best advised you watch from the sidelines and not get involved in it. Love is beautiful, but only when you are with the right person; if you are with the wrong person, all you will feel is pain, and from there you start to see love differently and think all that it brings is pain; you only get to enjoy love when the right person is involved.
Some people did not have to work themselves out before they found love; more like it just happened, and then there are some that have journeyed through seven hells and seven seas and still did not find any. If you found love without working yourself out, then you are one lucky person; these days you just have to keep trying and hoping the right person comes knocking. Love only works when you are with the right person, one that reciprocates the feeling and shows how much they care about you. When a person loves you, they do all that is expected of them with no questions asked; they are only after making you happy, and anything that would cause you pain they avoid.
To the question Is the heartache and drama that comes with love worth it? Yes, it is worth it as long as it stays within limits. We all know that there is no perfect relationship; there must be ups and downs, there must be fights and quarrels, but that does not mean it becomes a daily dose or a habit. When you fight and quarrel every day, at what point do you express and show your love for each other? All the drama is worth it as it is expected, but when it goes beyond the limit, it automatically becomes a toxic one and should be avoided.