Do we attract troubles ourselves?

My greetings to all the hivers. Friends, I believe that it is very important for us to go out for ourselves some time in a week. I am saying this because we keep running for everyday life every day. Household responsibilities, children's education, office work, the boss's tension, and what not. Do we ever think about ourselves? No, we remain entangled in this. What do I want, what do I like, and what do I like? The truth is that we never even think about this. Friends, it is definitely our duty to think about everyone.

But so much so that we don't have time to understand ourselves. Friends, we take on many responsibilities ourselves. Just as you have struggled to manage your life, children will also struggle in the same way, they will have to do it. Everyone has their own life. We keep thinking like this, What will happen to the children? Friend, nothing will happen, everything will be fine. They also care about him. Why are you so worried? Yes, it is your duty to make them stand and guide them. Do that much. If you follow them too much, something wrong may happen. Therefore, there is no need to interrupt them too much. It is my job to tell you that there is a pit ahead. If they want to study it, then they should study it with interest.

What can we do? Problems become worse when you think too much. It is important for them to understand what happens if they fall into a pit. And this is also important. When the eagle makes its nest, it makes it in a place where there is a steep rock on the hill, and there it makes its nest. So that children are aware of heights and will not feel afraid when they fly in the future. And interestingly, when the babies become capable of flying, their parents push them down from the nest. They know that they have the power to fly within them. They just have to get it out. You won't succeed once or twice, but you will definitely succeed the third time. And it happens. It is like that with us too, but we roam around with unnecessary tension. This does not mean that we leave everything behind and do not say anything to them. It is not so; definitely guide them in every situation. But every work should be of one's own free will and should not be done like this. Friends, I say, let children make a few mistakes. So that they understand what was right.

I see some people who have just retired, their children have now grown up, and their daughters-in-law have come, but they keep teaching them Pat. I wonder, what is the need? Yes, it may be right for you too, but let them do it too. What is the result of this? What happens is what the son and daughter-in-law want. Then came the tension, no one listened to me. I say what is needed. Your job is to tell if it is wrong, not to oppose. Even if they heard, there was no joy; even if they heard, there should be joy. If they don't listen, then they will have to come out of the pit. He will definitely remember the second time. That's why we need a solution, which is good as it is, that's all. We have to find our happiness, do whatever we like, go for a walk, spend time with friends, go to nature, meet plants, and love them. Friends, there is much to enjoy. Must know how to find it. This one doesn't listen; that one doesn't listen; this shouldn't have happened. This is all nonsense, and if it doesn't happen, then it makes you sad. It is better that you keep your expectations to a minimum so that there is no tension, friends. Thank you.