Going against all odds he something that I have to put into yourself. I mean you have to put all effort into his to make sure that you go against all hearts.
You don't have to look like your problem. Cry to God in surprise. Then you appeared before men in every berry that you can. Because whenever people see you and your face is written all over with your problem, the probability they will not even respect you or even have any prospect for you, but when you don't look like a problem and when you are always high. And the top you always happy. We are not even showing the bad side. Trust me, people will respect you in no time and they will show you the respect that you deserve. I have seen this done over and over and before. Whenever you are facing a problem, always learn to keep it off your face and your character. You know there is only God that can solve problems. I'll work on it in the private. Umm.