Reviving the Spirit of Big Families: A Call for Connection

in voilk •  4 months ago

    Although there are many things in our life that we want to change everything is not in our control you can say that everything does not go according to us, we have to compromise on many things and this is life. Tell me, you must have seen in movies or dramas how everything turns out to be right in the end, this does not happen in real life. We have to compromise and this is the truth. Nowadays, many problems have arisen if we look around us. And the biggest reason I think is that love is decreasing among people. Yes, everyone claims to love each other to show off, but the reality is something else.


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    Even though we are surprised to see big houses and consider ourselves very small, a successful family exists only in a small hut. In a big house, there are only troubles, mostly I have seen the same. Earlier the time was different, earlier you used to see that people had very big joint families, but everyone wanted a nuclear family, which means only husband-wife and their children, they do not want anyone else's company, they consider everyone else as a burden. And this is the only thing that I want to bring back because earlier big families used to be very happy, there were grandparents, grandchildren, uncles, brothers and sisters, there used to be a very long family but in total there are only four people in the family and some places only three.

    It is very sad to see how people are no longer able to bear their expenses. Our age is also increasing but still what kind of love is there? Now you are not able to bear the expenses of those hands who nurtured you in your childhood. How are your relationships with those people with whom you spent your childhood, your brothers and sisters? Earlier, there used to be very big families, everyone used to live together and there was a lot of fun in the family, nowadays everyone needs their separate room, which was not possible earlier, everyone used to live in one big room. Yes, privacy is important these days, but nowadays we are giving too much space in the name of privacy and such a situation, many things slip away.


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    In earlier times, people used to sit and talk among themselves in the evening, but now it does not happen. Nowadays, just see wherever you see people glued to their phones or any basic devices and that is their only world. It is very sad to see this. I am not saying that I don't do this, but still, I try to do as little work as possible. I want to bring it back to this point, yes, it will not be an easy thing because nowadays people leave their cities because of their jobs but if they want, they can also bring their parents with them, what will happen is that they will get a chance to live with my parents and secondly, if they are married and have children, then their children will also get the love of their grandparents or a lot of work has been done these days.

    What do you think about this, do you like a joint family or prefer a nuclear family? Yes, everything has its advantages and disadvantages. For many people, leaving the house becomes a compulsion, but still some people, even after leaving the house, maintain less of a relationship with their family members and some maintain only a verbal relationship. And nowadays it has become a very common thing here, earlier when people had less money then everyone used to cooperate but now after the arrival of money everyone has become arrogant in a way and they feel that as long as other people If it doesn't matter to me then I shouldn't talk to him and much more. In a way, I can say that the world has become selfish, for the sake of selfishness even a donkey is ready to become a father, but in reality, no one loves those who should love them and this is what is causing weakness in the relationships.

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