Becoming a success and being able to control your life isn't often possible but it is possible to handle whatever happens after. You see, if want to be able to do things without people knowing that you are doing them and reach great height people did not expect, then there are some skills you need to learn.
First, you need to know how to cut attention at all cost. When you become the sight of attraction, you become the target, the one with a bounty on his/her head. Never clamor for the spotlight, you do not need to be the loudest in the room instead make your presence count. Choose your acts carefully and play your cards with precision. Ensure that every moment counts and make it worth it.
If you want to be successful, you cannot do it alone. If you walk alone, the road will look longer, and you will be board very fast but when you walk with others and make them do the work, you would realize how short and fun the journey would be but in all, be able to take credit for their work. Be the mastermind, be the strategist and help them to do what you want them to do while you delegate and watch them win it and attribute the winning to you.
Never win through arguments rather you should win through you should win through actions. While arguments will win the battle of words, action wins perception. You can go back and forth with the world about being a success and you win the argument, the only way they will agree that you are a winner is when you win in action. You must have heard that words are cheap but action speaks volume. The both speak but one has value than the other. Your proof, Track record, and endeavors are what should be your compelling argument. Never proof to other via debating word, proof to them via actions and results.
Make yourself indispensable to people if you want to succeed. You do not leeches, you need people who need you around to do a lot of things and who need you to reach their next goal as an asset and not a parasite. If you are easily replaceable, then you are of no value to them so it is important that you keep yourself indispensable.
When you are asking for help, ensure that you are not pleading to their mercy, generosity or gratitude rather you are appealing to their self-interest. When you are appealing to their self-interest, you are aligning your needs to theirs but when you are pleading to their mercy, you are showing them that you have no worth to them and you are at their mercy. When asking for help, be able to negotiate and not beg. Look at what they value and play on that to get what you want and let them see reasons why doing it for you is a win-win.
Always ensure that to deal with whatever you are doing decisively and conclusively. Never leave room for resurgence that can break or mar you. Take actions on everything you want to do decisively and do not do anything half baked. Never leave any decision half solved because they will deteriorate and will come back to hurt you.
One final thing you should learn to do is use the power of scarcity on yourself. Increase your respect and honor with scarce appearances. Always being present leads to being taking as a mediocre because your worth diminishes but being absent once in a while increases your power and strength. Being available all the time means being taken for granted but being absent is golden.
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