What do you do when you're confronted with a difficulty, some challenges, or a set of unknown difficult circumstances?
- Do you choose to lay blame on someone?
- Do you choose to place responsibility on your coworkers
- Do you choose to place the blame on your accomplice? Do you think you're to be blamed? Do you think it's because of the country's economic state?
- Do you hold God responsible for some of your struggles?
- Do you just avoid blaming anyone or anything and allow everything to occur naturally without you influencing anything.
Sometimes in life we always seems to blame everyone for our problems but never for once blame ourselves, rather looking for someone to blame and that's a coward life. The most empowering thing we can do or ought to do in most cases is to take responsibility for your problems and take the right decisions and steps to resolve them gradually even if they can't be resolved at once because every steps leads to solutions uf we keep to it.
Blaming others never appears to be working and definitely it won't work because, if you keep blaming others for your faults, loses, negligence or whatever it might be happening in your life, you will lose your prestige, stance, relevance, competence status when compared to those who recognize they are the source of their own failures and they thrive to find solution to it. sometimes you won't acknowledge that you have lost your influence around people, all of a sudden you will discover that people are no longer paying attention to you or gradually not making use of what you tell them to do. You can't be a leader if you keep blaming your followers for setbacks and whatever situations that's holding the tram back. That's why you're the leader, you're placed there for a reason which is to lead and not to blame.
We must understand that "blaming is highly infectious," and that being exposed to people who constantly blame others for their personal shortcomings is enough to cause others to do the same especially for a kid growing up under parents tagt constantly blame each other even when they are aware of who's wrong and typically we see such child portraits such character of blaming his or her colleagues when something wrong happens. This is never a good path to follow, in the long run blaming people for what you caused will never get you anywhere in life and ut brings disgrace, more failures.
I still don't grab the essence of blaming others for your wrong because it's never the ideal thing to do at any point in time because you might be hurting someone else and we aren't aware of what he/she is going through and we just decide to pour out our blame on them and this can lead to the person hurting themselves in a way we can't imagine. People have loss their life just because someone blamed them for what they had no cause in. Blaming someone brings humiliation and it is never easy to get iver it especially when humilated in the public. I have been a victim and i know how long it took to get over it and till now i still remember that moment as if it was yesterday.
Think before you blame someone because uf not you mind end up be the reason for someone committing suicide and I'm sure you don't want to be in such situations because you will never find a way to forgive yourself if ut really happens. People have lost their lives just because a friend or family blamed them for they have nothing to do it and it brought shame and disappointment to them and they ended up taking their life.
Neglecting to admit our faults or continuing to avoid them will only make our problems bigger and more challenging to solve in the long term and we will later regret not tackling those challenges when they can easily be conqured. People have have ended relationship because of blaming others, people have lost their loved ones, people have lost their jobs, people have lost opportunities because of them blaming others.
Blaming someone else for your mistakes won't help you either so it's better to face your mistakes and never be ashamed of it because if you avoid it now, you will encounter it all at some point in your life, NEVER TRY PLAYING THE BLAMING GAME.
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