I do not have so many friends, but if you are my friend, then you have no reason to be sad; all your worries will be with me. Ho, what am I saying? I grew up in a family where, no matter what we faced in life, we still found a way to be happy.
I will not forget when I was living with my parents about a year ago. We normally do dancing competitions.
My dad is so lively; I mean, you can't be with my dad and be bored for a few seconds. One good thing I inherited from my father is the ability to make friends and mingle with whoever you might be or the kinds of behaviors you might have.
I have the ability to maintain a relationship with whoever you are; I know well enough that I inherited that from my father. It sounds to me like when people say they find it so hard to talk to a particular person. I could remember that during my NYSC program, there was a girl who didn't talk to people, and no one cared to talk to her. I never even knew she was from our CDs the day I met her. We became friends and later realized she's from our community development service CDs.
Everyone was so shocked. She's talking to me. And I believe there is no one on those CDs that I don't talk to. Although we might not be friends, I love to frustrate people's lives for good. I don't like people being moody unnecessarily or seeing people's sadness. That is why I like to talk to people, play enough, and frustrate their lives.
The little friend I've got on my CDs always complains about me. Because there's nothing I will not do to them. I'm so playful; you might be telling me your problem, and I will be laughing at you. That's only if you are my friend, but if not, then I will take you seriously.
I've got some people here as friends too, and I'm sure if you ask them about me, they will have a lot to say about how I used to disturb them.
My mom is an introvert, so I inherited that from her too. The combination of my mom and my father makes me ambivert. Honestly speaking, as much as I love to play,. That is the same energy I need to stay on my own. I'm not someone who gets freaked out by making friends. In fact, for the past three months now, I've been alone and seen no one. I can be inside my room for weeks, and it will be hard for me to even go outside.
I love the fact that I can be my own. Not everyone can do that, though, although it might not be a good thing for some people. But believe me, I love my own space so much.
This two characteristics has really helped me a lot in life, there's no gathering I met myself that people will not want to talk to me. In fact one thing is that I don't like doing context with people because there's always an advantage that I will win. And the fact that I can be all on my own is what makes me really happy too.
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