As time passes, parenting is becoming more and more difficult, especially because nowadays children are getting smartphones from childhood and if you are 25 to 30 years old, you might have got it after a long time, but nowadays it has become quite common to see phones in the hands of small children. And we have often seen that most of the children use mobile phones in their free time and remain immersed in them. Where I work, some of them are even younger than 20 years, so whenever they get free, they keep scrolling releases on their phones. I feel very sad to see how much time they waste. Yes, I had them on board in the hive but none of them could stay here continuously, I don't know why, I did not understand the reason even though I tried my best to make them stay here for a long time.
Well, parenting has become very difficult these days because we have seen that parents care a lot for their children nowadays, they ask them to be very careful. Earlier times were different, earlier people used to give a little freedom to children and sometimes there is a lot of danger for small children because there are kidnappings and crimes happen with children, we should also be cautious but we should not make children so sensitive that they have to face a lot of problems later. I feel that we should let children solve whatever problems they have or are facing on their own, in this way they become self-reliant, if we help them then they get used to this thing. As we have often seen that when children have school projects or any other work is given, then parents help them a lot, yes we should help them up to a level but most of the work should be let them do, in this also we teach the work and their dependency ends.
I feel that if we keep helping them like this, then they may have to face a lot of problems when they grow up. Instead, if they get used to facing challenges from childhood, they will get used to all these things and will learn a lot by the time they grow up and this will prove to be very helpful for them. If we make small children get used to accepting and solving problems from childhood, then this will prove to be very helpful for them in the future and they will stop depending on others and this is very important because nowadays if you are not skilled, then it is very difficult for you to survive. If it is so much now, then think how much more it is going to be in the future. Probably when you were small in childhood your parents too would have helped you with your projects or I may say they might have made a project for you or whatever work was done for the home, our family members used to help us a lot in that but in such a situation we all get used to it and later we realize that if we do those things on our own then we get to learn a lot and this is also important.
Yes, everyone wants their children to get all the comforts and they do not have any problems, but there is a limit to everything and we should recognize it. It should not happen that we do it to the limit and our child gets addicted to the same thing and when he goes into life, he will have to face a lot of problems. Yes, when he is in some problem or in some dilemma, then we should help them, but we should make him capable of fighting his problems and not help them all the time. In the long run, we have to take a lot of care of the children and keep them under a lot of security.
So, the overall thing is that we should let the children deal with their problems themselves, yes, we should help them, but we should not make them habituated to this thing, if they start solving the problems themselves, then maybe it will benefit them and it is good for them and we should treat them like this because see, no one stays with anyone forever, everything is temporary, so we should not worry too much about how he will do this thing or what problems he will have to face. Look, you can never be prepared for it all the time, so if you teach them how to fight things off, then maybe you won't have to worry.
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