One of the difficult lessons you will learn is that you trying to break the norms that your parents and the ancestors set is wrong. You suffer the most of the life when you try to flip the norm. And that is where you learn that you have to get the life back on track.
You have to take the life in such way that you do the difficult and painful work first and then do the rest slowly for the rest of the life. I want to explain how so and what and why behind those things. Putting the difficult work first is the way we get most of the life issues done.
In this post I wish to point that out.
Marriage
Try doing marriage in 40s, 50s, you would miss out on life. Because nature and biology is not in favor of women. And if you are man maybe that would work for you. But not for us. So doing that on time also has to be done in earlier stage of the age and life. Which a lot of people can't do and they do pay the price for the same. So the marriage has to be done earlier in the age and you can think of that as one of the big rocks.
Kids
You have to have kids in the age before you reach 60. Because men also can't be of healthy nature after this age. And the kids is something you have to do before you are in a good shape. Otherwise this would be one of those hard pills to swallow in life that you are going to be suffering. In order for life to work in the favor have kids early.
Start saving early
You may think that you have life ahead and things may not work. You may meet many issues that would tell you saving earlier life has more advantage as with age you can't get jobs and also the income earning and the wishes don't map up. So saving money early and then trying to balance the understanding of the life with money becomes easier with age.
Remember to have fun
You can have age, health, people, money. But you have to enjoy the life. If you don't do that then you are going to be suffering a lot. Because there is no rewind button for time. And people will continue to get bitter as you age and so you get bitter too. So have fun while you can. Because god is not fair, life is not fair. Even 1 minute of good life is fun to live then it's just over.
Always do the difficult work first. Do the easy work forever in life. But difficult and the priority work has to be done first. If you do then yeah life just gets less troublesome.