Hello beautiful people. As an unmarried lady, one of the surefire secret that will fast-track your meeting with your future partner is:- "activating your social life"
You can't be praying all day and night, asking God to send you Mr. Right why you are always indoors, you live a triangular life and worst still, you are not welcoming.
Again, You are not accessible online and offline. You don't give people face, you keep a long face, you seem not to be interested in men outside. But when you go indoors you start thinking about the men you saw and start asking God when?
Aren't you seeing that your actions is contradicting your prayers and heart desires, how then do you think your Mr. Right will locate you?
Yes! Everything is possible in God's sight. But at least, you should do the needful as a human being.
What is the needful? You need to activate your social life as a woman.
Activating your social life entails everything that will get men attracted to you or get you attracted to men without you being desperate for men.
How then will you activate your social life inorder to attract your future husband?
If you are an introvert, you need to build an online presence. You need to start being relevant online. Many women have gotten their future partners through their activities online. Be a woman of value online. Make valuable posts, reply your chats, always comment intelligently on people's posts. By doing this, you are activating your social life online.
Attend Social functions:- attending social functions makes people to notice you. Most especially, weddings, cultural activities, social gatherings etc. When going to a social function, Dress properly, be nice to everyone you will meet, try to be open and interactive. Who knows? Don't go there to carry a long face. Smile.
If you are a University/College student, stop living a triangular life, quit the mindset of "I can't marry my Course mate/school mate" this mentality has made some ladies miss the one who was meant for them.
That you guys are in the same department or school dosen't mean that their is no possibility of marriage. I have seen classmates/school mates who married. Then as for the triangular life, higher institution is a place where you get to meet people. Don't be an egg head who only is interested in class, hostel and fellowship. Learn to socialize with guys of other level and department. Your future husband may be there.Activate your social life in Church. As a Christian lady, the Holy spirit dosen't forbid you to socialize with the brothers. You probably May have been praying for a marriage partner but you have friend zoned all the brothers. You are always looking to serious, you are too conscious that you limit your communication with men and brethren. Sister Mary, it's not that way o. As a sister in the lord, you ought to socialize but know your boundaries. After church, interact, communicate and try to know people. Be accessible.
Be welcoming/accessible as a woman. It's the best way of activating your social life. Hence, always wear a smile, dress to attract and not to seduce, learn how to communicate effectively, be nice and polite to the men you meet, don't belittle people, learn how to reply chats as soon as possible, be emotionally mature/intelligent etc.
By doing all these things and others, you are definitely activating your social life and you are equally projecting yourself to attract your future husband.
After all, na person wey we see im market na she we go buy from. If you carry your market keep for house, e go spoil for your hand. Las las, nobody go buy am.
