Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. Love is indeed a beautiful thing when you are with the right person, someone that gives you butterflies in your belly and does not make you feel like you are losing your mind. No love story is a smooth sail all the way; there are ups and downs, but with the right person, every obstacle brings you both closer and makes the bond stronger. Lately, social media and people make it look like love doesn't exist, but it does exist; you just haven't found your person. When you find someone who matches the energy, you won't even bother about what goes on on social media and around the world.
Loving a person alone comes with a whole lot of feelings, feelings that even words cannot express. Then try to picture the same person reciprocating the love you show them; it is all over. You start enjoying and experiencing heaven on earth. Nothing really beats when the feeling is reciprocated; you don't have to force things to flow; things just go smoothly, though there'd still be storms, but for the fact that both parties feel the same way, it won't mean a thing. The truth is it is very difficult to meet your person; you will have to undergo so much trauma with the wrong people before you eventually meet your person. Some people are so unlucky they undergo trauma with the wrong people and still end up with the person and are forced to rule love off.
Lately, we have been made to believe that anything that has to do with love is for the rich. These days ladies only want to be with a rich guy; many want to live their dream life without putting in the work; they want to live their dream life off a man's pocket, and it's funny. These days first date question is, Do you have money? Leaving all the important questions for last while knowing the man's financial capabilities come first, fot the fact the street is flooded with ladies like this has made men generalize the whole thing and look at every lady the same way until they prove otherwise.
Smart woman: Truth be told, not all women are smart; some are just beauty without brains, no plans, no dreams, and no vision; some just want to be called asa odogwu (rich man wife). Social media is flooded with the Gen Z baddies who don't want to work but want to live an extravagant life. A woman who is after building her life by herself and not dependent on a man to do that, she plans her financial life, set goals and work towards achieving them, and she is not the type that spends every little money that comes her way on things that lose value over time.
Dress sense: Funny how many ladies feel any dress that is revealing and leaves sensitive body parts open is the best for every occasion. We do have a dress for every occasion. Some dresses should not even be worn outside, but you see a lady with a dress like that and feeling fly.
Communication and sense of humor: A lady that knows how to pass a message is everything; for any relationship or friendship to thrive, communication is key. Some keep things to themselves and fail to open up, and in the end things go sideways. Also, as much as a smart lady is attractive, she shouldn't be the overly serious type, those ones with little or no time for humor at all, serious all the time.
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