Everything happens unexpectedly, either any good thing or any bad thing. Our psychology is very different or we can say selfish as we always expect some surprise be to always good but don't know that bad surprises are always important sometimes. When good surprises meet us we feel joiced but when bad surprises meet us we are sad and that's obvious according to the mindset upon which we grow.
But surprisingly the intersting part of life starts when we have bad surprises. These bad surprises help us to meet the most strongest version of ourselves and that is reality. Our life cycle is based upon ups and downs straight way is not leaded by anyone we always have to face some beautiful and some ugly situations.
People often who face these bad surprises are like we didn't do anything then why only us, this is the question which comes first in our mind but we often forgot that if we are gonna face is on are own then what would other people would shout out coming and going to everyone to tell what they are facing. Every has his/her problems but some face is quietly and rise but other have no other job then shouting on that issue again and again and then stuck at that point only.
Everyone rise from ashes but the burning comes first and this psychology is not understood by everyone. Some of the situations in which i got away from are sorting someone's bad mood or a fight going on. You must go away from all the negetive energy or people near you carring such aggressive and negative thoughts. The day i realised that it's over i do not have to give any further judgements to stop someone's argument, i think or see a lot of changes in myself.
Unexpected things made me the best mostly the things which i could not face. These situations made me stronger, the situation which i could not think of that they may come in my life, came and i have to fave them i don't have any other option. Facing them was good and really learnt a lot. I helped me a lot. I hope you will understand this.