As I am starting up a new chapter in my life, I find myself in darkness. It is solely my own decision with no support from anyone. I am too confused to judge if I am on a right path or not. Some of remember in the family are against my decision, and I got too rigid to go ahead with my own decision. At this crucial phase of life, I am missing my Dad a lot. He was always up there standing by my side supporting and guiding me. I never took any big decision without his consultation, and today, as I am moving ahead in life after one year of his demise, I find myself in state of botherness and little confused. I am finding very lonely.
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Role of Father!
Finding a support for my decision, I shared few post here on blockchain. It was intentionally done to get some emotional support. After all the place of father cannot be filled. The gap that was created after his demise is huge and hard to fill by. Fathers always influence their children's behavior and values, and can set an example for how to have relationships with others. For example, a father can model the importance of hard work and dedication, and teach his children the value of perseverance and resilience. Fathers are their children's first teachers, and can help them develop cognitive and social skills. Fathers can provide a safe space for their children to share their thoughts and feelings, and can offer comfort and reassurance during difficult times. They can also teach their children how to express their emotions and navigate complex situations in a healthy way.
The Role of parents in shaping up the child's life can undoubtedly never be in question. He plays many role and alwsys provide a protective and supportive role to their kids.
Collect moments, not things
Now as my Dad left me, I am finding myself quite alone and lonely. It is hard to fill his gap. Now after one year since he left us I took one of the biggest decision of my life. This is what made the situation quite complicated. The presence of a guiding force in life is alwsys fruitful, but now at the importsnt juncture of life, I am walking alone. I am missing him, I am trying to see how he would have reacted to my big step, but again there is nothing I could do now. Father alwsys used to be a super hero, and now at his absence I am crawling my way towards a happier life.
Life is full of surprises and it is strange how we get so emotional and dependant on our parents. We get to close to either our Mom or to my Dad. In my case it was him. Spending last 6 years with him made me too closer. But now finding no way out to my problems, I moved ahead. But still feel his presence would have given a new dimension to my decision. But again assuming him to be looking at me up from.the heaven, I am not harming anyone, my decision will get me a desired result in life. Hope he keep blessing me.
Peace!!
Namaste @steemflow
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