A romantic relationship is courtship, and courtship is a relationship before marriage which is called a trial marriage. A trial marriage can lead to marriage. Always see yourself as being married, but that kind of marriage is one you can easily opt out of.
Being organized or disorganized can be of any form and can manifest in different ways. Being disorganized means lacking order in your thoughts, actions, and so on.
Having to keep a relationship with a disorganized person is certainly a deal breaker for me. It will be very challenging for people like that to stay on top of their responsibilities and this will lead to unending misunderstandings with their partner.
I want to share an experience of a lady I loved so really wished to marry her. When it comes to looks, she's a damsel. She's as pretty as a picture.
We started with friendship, back then in my university days. She was brilliant and liked her for that. Later our friendship grew into a little romance and later became very deep, Though she was very brilliant and pretty, she had flaws that I wondered if I could tolerate for the rest of my life.
She wasn't domestic at all, she's lazy when it comes to cooking and taking care of the house, and she prefers eating out not minding if we would go back home without a penny or we'll have what to spend the next day. she's someone who thinks only of the present moment and will never plan for the future. She was so extravagant, even if she's going to be irrationairrationalityionally should be minimal, she'll always want to patronize expensive restaurants and bars.
Then I began to have bits of continuing the relationship, later I started noticing other things about her too. She'd step out and come back very late a night, challengedallenge her with such an attitude, that it triggered her anger. Even sometimes, she exhibits unprovoked anger. got me so pissed, I'd sit her down sometimes and talk to her about her actions and behaviors, she adjust for a short period and before you know it, she begins with her irrationally again.
It was a very difficult thing to quit the relationship, but I had to. I believed if the relationship goes beyond what it was, I may end up living with regrets. I couldn't continue to put up with her attitude and even, usually, I had to quit. It was painful for me though because I loved her, but that was the best decision I could make at the moment.
So, being in a relationship with someone who is disorganized or a maximalist is indeed a real breaker for me.
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