So it happened that I was with a friend this afternoon, and we saw a lady pass by and get our attention. Actually, I am the kind of person who does not really seem attracted to what some ladies do, especially when they are not doing something right. But this got me so worried and talking because of what she did. Someone once said in a post a saw sometimes ago that this generation will lose mothers, but not just mothers because it takes a lot to call someone a mother and not just a mummy.
I was having a discussion, so this lady passed by, and I was wondering why she came out in this manner. She wore a short skirt that was even too short to be called a mini skirt, and then she wore a crop top. The cloth she wore was just too small, so even if she is bending to pick something on the floor, everything she is wearing will be exposed to the whole generation, and I just wondered why she would dress like that without having shame or feeling remorseful for the way she dressed.
Actually, no one could challenge her because they feel she owns her clothes herself, but my concern is that, for a future mother and an upcoming mother to some children, imagine now having children and your children seeing this kind of habit. Children are really fast to adapt to these changes because whatever you do in their presence will surely get into their brain very quickly.
I sometimes remember a baby doing something, and he was to be disciplined because he got caught, and they asked him who taught him, and he said he learned it from his parents and that they did it in his presence every time. These things are not what we should be doing to children because they affect their brains. Imagine a mother who buys this kind of clothing for their children and motivates them to wear it. With time, they will get used to this kind of thing, and even the mother won't be able to correct them later.
Well, this is why I said from the beginning that our generation is going to miss valued parents. Not that we won't see it, but it will be very few because most people in our time now are not really concerned about parenting or taking care of children. But I just hope the youth get to understand this very soon without doing unnecessary things.