In life we have friends around us, who we can relate to sometimes, we some people in our life that are especially to us, it can be our spouses, friends, brother or sister and sometimes it can be our parents. And for one to say we are friends, we are cool there must be a connection or a common thing and keeps it going. In some cases in life, when these connections are not there again we tends to disconnect and reconnect may not really be that easy to do. As people may say for friendship, that "in friendship, it is made strong by one person among the two in the friendship" I don't know if I said it well but you grab my point. Sometimes what keeps a friendship, relationship and others going is good communication.
I'm a person who love his privacy and my personal life is so important to me, so I don't have much friends but the few friends I have a always keep us going because I have this thing that when I'm cool with someone I respect it and cherish it as well, so I wouldn't like in a situation we will separate rather I try as much as I can it keep it going and moving, by this way we safe our friendship. I prefer good communication as the best way to keep going, when I do communicate with others, It always give me this feeling of oneness and belonging which is an interesting part of thing. On my free time I do take close friends for outing although not regular because of the situation of the economy, but when ever we hangout we enjoy ourselves and have funny, this also strengthen the bond and connection with other.
There's this very friend of mine, she don't call unless I call her myself and when it get to texting, the same thing, so one day after I have been the one doing the more of calling and texting, I called her and ask her what do you think that keep friends going, immediately she mentioned communication then I ask her what if I don't call you or text you that means we won't keep going, she told me she is not a calling type and I was like really?? So after which I have talked with her, I told the important of communication and from that very day, she started returning same energy and we are cool and keeps going.
Below are my planet activity process of today 11/11/2024.
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