Hi guys.

in voilk •  last month

    Okay lets participate here. I am new here guys. I found this community when I was scrolling through and thankfully I did because I have seen some good topics here and I guess I will not mess up.

    I would tell you guys what I think about having sex on the first date. There can be different answers in this regard. I cannot figure out my answer here. I have had such encounters myself and I will tell you in accordance to those experiences. Well, the thing is that on the very first date, there is a lack of intimacy which I consider something important in sex. If you do not know the person, how are you going to make them feel comfortable and satisfied? I live in the capital territory of my country and it is a rather well off side of my country which allows it to be liberal and free for dating to some extent.

    Without knowing a person, there will be just raw sex which is what some people need, but not me. This aspect of it makes it a very subjective thing. I hope I am making things clear to my readers out there. I cannot obviously talk about it so freely and openly because it might just offend some people or make them uncomfortable and I do not want to do that at the start of my journey here.


    Once, I was dating a college mate. We knew each other for a while as college mates and on the first date, it clicked. I knew that we both want it. It felt right and it eventually led to great sex on the first date. So, that is on the table too. If it feels right, it does not matter that it is your first date or 30th. This is why I said at the beginning that it is very subjective.

    That is it from my side. Thanks for reading.

    The thoughts and pictures are my own.

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