As someone who admittedly feel sheltered my whole life, I came to a point where I want to try new things outside my comfort zone. So as much as I can, I try going outdoors, out of town trips, and all other things within my reach.
However, night life was never something I want to try because I don't enjoy dancing and getting wasted. But from time to time, out of respect to my peers, I attend after parties in company events.
These parties aren't so bad at the start, just some light drinks and loud music. I personally like drinking tequilas and other ladies drinks but not too much. Things are okay not until the people you're with are all hyped up and are no longer sensible to talk to.
One of my mistake is relying too much on people especially when it comes to the time we have to go home. We initially agreed to go home by 10pm but due to circumstances, we went out of the event almost midnight. Partly, it was my fault because I waited for the perfect timing to exit, when we should've went as soon as possible.
I do understand that we all have different upbringings but going home late is not allowed in our household. While most of my colleagues are not staying with their family members.
I also hate the fact that some people subtly disrespects and gaslight me. Like pulling pranks on important matters. Sometimes I forget how to put boundaries with my relationships and I hate that too!
So, from this day on, as much as possible, I will be professional at work but I will no longer tolerate disrespect and gaslight. I know I will have to earn people's respect and I'm willing to work on myself.
People think I'm too kind but in reality, I just don't want to offend anyone. This mentality needs to change because I'm no longer interested in pleasing other people.
Anyways, I hope you all had a wonderful evening.
Good night everyone!