Do you know? some of us women don't know NAGGING irritates your husband, but your "Constructive Silence" weakens him, you must learn this as a wife.
Every Wife should know that as a woman your BEAUTY will alway attracts your husband, that shouldn't be all, but your WISDOM also will continue to keep him with you always, trust me its the truth.
You should know that your ELEGANCE catches his ATTENTION, then your INTELLIGENCE will always convinces him that you are the that special one that he dream about and will continue to trust you with all because he needs that INTELLIGENCE in you as a WIFE.
Know this too, that the "baseless" character in your husband comes out occasionally. And it's your fault if you don't control it in peace, your ability to always handle it is a shows that you are a MATURED WIFE And one he can be with.
You need to know also that every man has "Secret Struggles and Pains", including that your husband. As a wife if you should ever find them out from him; please, exhibit the greatest maturity and seek help from above.(GOD) to help you with USEFUL IDEAS, that you will suggest to your husband, also your WORDS matter to your husband than your "LOOKS" always invest in the RIGHT WORDS when talking with him. The power to keep or destroy your marriage is in your mouth.
Earn the respect of your husband and he will consider you as the yardstick for all his actions!
Learn to mould the mood of your husband, and he will naturally give you his ""FUTURE"* as he recalls your maturity in past issues. Note that, WOMEN are everywhere. But, REAL WIVES are scarce, let the QUEEN" in you come alive, and your husband will always hold you in a very ** HIGH ESTEEM*
Note this: No one is motivated all the time, but you can be disciplined at all times, one who is patient glows with an inner radiance, passion and hard work beat out natural talent but the two together can lead to greater heights, gratitude lights a fire in your soul. Declutter anything you don't need, old habits, old mindset and old ways of solving problems, you being yourself, unknowingly inspire others to be themselves.
Give life another chance in your marriage, improve adapt and overcome. Fire is the test of gold, while adversity is the test of strong men and women.