Ironically the worst mistake I could have made in my past is to have wanted to be good to everyone regardless of whether I was being good to myself, for many years I lived for others, I tried to please everyone, wearing myself out mentally and physically. And don't get me wrong, helping is NOT a bad thing, I just never knew how to set limits. For a long time I was very busy trying to look good with other people but without realizing it I knew that personally I was not advancing at all, I was not meeting my goals or my objectives simply because I was busy meeting other people's goals.
I admit that I did feel good every time I heard my name in other people's mouths saying what a good person I am but again and again I wondered how good I was being to myself? Really being so focused on pleasing other people I forgot that I also deserved all the attention and also in the midst of my reflection and self-knowledge I knew that I really should not have to expect anything from anyone to emerge and project my goals, I am the owner and protagonist of my life and it depends on me how far I advance, I learned to prioritize myself, to put myself above people and not necessarily always say no but first I make sure to find myself.
I neglected myself a lot, in each of the most important aspects where a woman should shine, physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically. Since I learned to prioritize myself, love myself above all and realize my value 👑💓 above all my value as a woman, because although I am a single mother one day I understood that attitude is everything and self-love too, that you don't necessarily need someone to shine everyone has their essence 💛 and shines with their own light. Since I learned and reflected on all these things the doors have opened for me. It's as if the doors of the universe opened for me after I opened my eyes and realized what was going on inside me.
Today I feel pretty, beautiful, sensual, sexy! I will soon say that I am in the middle of my career which is not really just any career, it is the one I always dreamed of since I was a child, just thinking that I will fulfill one of the most important goals of my life, my dream of becoming a psychologist, gives me so much joy and satisfaction, I swear that every day I make an effort, no matter how difficult my path may seem because it is, it is very difficult! 🥹 Sometimes I feel very exhausted because I have a lot of things to do being alone, take care of my son, take care of the house where we live alone, maintain a good rate in my studies and make sure that my son also does well in school, guide him, take care of him, be a mom, be a woman, work, But beyond the burdens, all these things for me are a blessing because there are people who do not even have the opportunity to live everything that with effort I am experiencing. The simple fact of being alive! That is the greatest gift. LIFE.
Basically this was the big mistake of my past, to live 100% for others when nobody really lived for me, it was myself. So this is a very personal reflection that I share with you and I thank the people who had the initiative on the subject. I feel different, I feel different, I feel happy, I feel grateful, I feel that I can give even more and I am on this path of transformation and evolution. I love you all! A big hug and have all a happy new year, remember that when you need it you can talk to me. ✨🌹
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