Hello beautiful people. As a man, you should understand that there's a difference between chasing a woman and showing interest.
Showing interest simply means making her know you're interested in her.
Chasing her on the other hand, means refusing to accept that she isn't interested.
Sometimes chasing a woman is caused by ego.
These are men who take rejection as a sign that they're not good enough. So they feel if they can win her over, they will prove to the lady and themselves that they're worthy.
Other times, men just chase because they don't know what they deserve.
Think about it. If you know what you bring to the table, it doesn't make any sense to continuously and exhaustively chase one lady who has made it clear that she doesn't want you.
Friend zone is the worst zone to be in, you are neither accepted nor rejected. You neither in their life nor out of their life. They don't want you to leave, neither do they want you to stay.
Today, they are giving you mixed signals, that you begin to build fantasies in your mind, tomorrow they will start withdrawing again.
You ask them what you are to them, their reply has been "we are friends". Yet they keep doing things that leads you on.
Well, you can accept to be led on at your detriment, you can as well choose to set your self from such zone.
If you want to be close to someone, and they ain't giving you a positive response, after so much persuasion, but only mixed signal, please leave for your sanity, except you are okay being just a friend to them.
A relationship well defined will always save you from so much emotional stress and unnecessary assumptions.
Don't entertain people who don't know what they really want. They should either be in or out. Any thing aside automatically becomes manipulation. Don't fall for it.
