Connection is a kind of magic

We are humans, and all of us are unique as we have the power to think differently. We have our own point of view to see our life. In my case, I think my life is very simple, but someone may think that his/her life is very complex. In this case, both of us are right. Again, it can be that neither I am right, nor s/he is wrong. It's just how we see life.

I am an ordinary person. Since childhood, I am living an ordinary life. The simplicity of ordinary life is very precious to me, and my thoughts are also quite simple. I crossed 26 years on earth, and within that little time, I mixed with different kinds of people, and among them, some people became special to me because I felt a strong connection/bond between us. What is the thing that made the connection, and what is the meaning of it? I think explaining it is indeed hard to explain in words, but I insist on saying something about it.

The connection is a kind of magic that is generated from pure hearts without any selfish desire. Mutual understanding, trust, and a little sense of responsibility are part of it. It's a feeling, and we just can feel it. I have met many people in my life, and I am known to many, and among them, I can contact them easily. When I contact with someone random after a long time (suppose 1 year), a hesitant feeling comes naturally. It's like time created a wall between us, but when it comes to someone who is special to me. I feel the warmth between us. There don't exist any hesitant feelings; friendly vibes come automatically, and we feel it like we met each other last week. This is called the connection, or so-called magic, I mentioned here.

Some people think that the person must help us during a time of crisis, especially a financial crisis, but I have a different opinion in this case. I think it should not be a compulsory thing. It is ok if the person can assist me by giving me financial help, but giving me the courage to deal with life's difficulties is the best thing one can do for me, as in life there are many issues I need to deal with. It's not necessary the presence of the person to support me. Sometimes, a single phone call can also be enough to give me the courage and confidence to face difficulties.

Those people with whom I am actually connected can understand me. I don't need to explain everything to them. They can feel my pain, and they also know to pull me whenever it's needed. So, the connections are the achievements of my life, and that is the thing that made my life more meaningful, which inspires me to move forward and take the lead.

That's what I feel about the connection as a minimalist. I tried to express my feelings with little words.