Hello beautiful people. Recently, there is this belief and speculations going on that Nigeria ladies don't marry for love, rather who is financially capable.
I have taken my time to read meaning into this speculation and I came to understand that sometimes, the problem is caused by some Nigerian parents.
Due to the economic condition of the country, Most Nigerian parents have set standards for their daughters on who they must bring home as their son in-law.
You would bear with me that some of our parents nowadays, only wants a rich and successful man for their daughters without even knowing if the man is safe for their daughters. Not even knowing his source of income and if he exhibits the toxic traits of a narcissist/domestic abuser.
Sometimes, these set of parents warn their daughters to stop every relationship they are having with a genuine man who loves their daughter and is ready to give her peace of mind. Just because the guy is not that financially balanced. They will intentionally deny their daughters true love and push her to where their is corn and wine but no peace. Due to their selfish gains.
And this is causing a very big problem in the area of love, relationship and marriage.
Dear Nigerian parents, it's not safe and encouraging to push your daughters into marrying a man just because he's a cash cow" that will solve all your financial problems.
I understand the fact that you want to seize the opportunity to liberate your family financially but please, remember the safety of your daughter.
