Keeping count, keeping records, and comparing how things used to be to how they are now is one way to determine how far you have come. Growth is constantly measured by comparison, which contradicts the belief that people should never compare.
Unfortunately, this is how things are.
Some people only realize how poor they are when they interact with people who are reasonably wealthy, whereas being among people you are superior to in almost every way makes it difficult to truly weigh yourself in order to determine your true position.
Without the art of comparison, it is difficult to know how far, how badly, or how well certain parameters in our lives have progressed, and this has nothing to do with satisfaction. Everything we do in life is about measurement and growth, regardless of whether we are running a race, a sprint, or a marathon.
Checking things like how much we earned in the past, how much we earn now, and how far our quality of life has improved or deteriorated. People say things like, "Five years ago, I could not afford a proper meal, but now I fly first class." We believe that in a specific time frame, we should have moved from one point to another, and this is not something we learn; it is instinct, and it is imbued in us to be obsessed with the concept of growth.
Everyone wants to grow because it promotes development, human civilization, and other benefits.
Countries like Japan and China are nearly ahead in terms of technological advancement, and while they can easily achieve this feat on their own, I believe that the competitive nature of the world has pushed countries like Japan and China to seek ultimate advancement that will allow them to eliminate the need for world powers such as the United States.
This may have caused world wars in the past, but today, countries simply want to advance in technology so that they are not overly reliant on other countries. The only exception is West Africa, where the leaders only want to line their pockets.
I was reading a post on the chain today, and this guy mentioned people who are used to posting every detail about their fun times on social media in order to make other people feel like they are underachievers or not hardworking enough. There are people who are guilty of this, and their ego simply wants to share the good news of how well things are going for them.
True, some people use social media to make others feel bad about themselves, but these attitudes are not always vindictive and do not reflect the attitude of someone who is simply grateful for the opportunity to progress.
It's also true that people who just want to genuinely talk of their success are making unsuccessful people feel bad, but sometimes that's how the world works. Others' success may make them feel terrible in a genuine way. It is not that they are envious in a malicious way; it is simply the thought of someone doing things you could have done, while you have tried so hard and it does not work.
The concept of having money or being capable as a person is not something that everyone can individually achieve
There are people who are successful, attractive, healthy, wealthy, and popular, and they did not have to work too hard to get there. People have taken risks that have cost them their lives, and others have taken the same risk and everything has turned out far better than they could have imagined.
This phenomenon is poorly understood because it contradicts the principle of causality.
We believe that every human phenomenon has a chain reaction and a ripple effect; however, the fact that this can be unevenly random is why I believe we still do not understand life as well as we think we do. However, there are times when we try to convince ourselves that we do not want to participate in that competition, but the truth is that having the feeling that the world is moving forward without us can make us unhappy about the success of others, and this feeling does not have to be wicked.
As humans, we believe that life should be fair to certain people because they deserve it.
This is reflected in the types of films we produce. We believe that goodness always triumphs over evil. Yes, it is true, but not all the time. This is why the principle of fairness and deservedness is only an ideology that operates within human psychology. The human way of doing things is now the way the universe is designed to operate.
It is why I believe it is healthy to be sad about your life situation; there is nothing to be ashamed of when you are disappointed and unhappy because life is going well for others but not for you; it is instinct, and while you may not need that pain, it is not a flaw.
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