This is the ideal formula... || Week:199

For me, to be tenacious...

You have to love yourself, accept yourself, admire yourself and recognize yourself. And it is not ego, it is self-love, it is being persistent and firm for the achievement of the purposes or objectives.

This is an anecdote of this ideal formula, in my life story, Galen...

I remember when I was in 4.º or 5.º grade the teachers sent to make plans (calligraphy) to correct writing and errors, one of those times being at home, I started making plans in my notebook and, out of nowhere, I wrote, “What I want I get” and that's how it was.

I have always celebrated my goals, my objectives, whether I care if they are big or small, important or anything, whether people value it or not, I am not interested, the meaning is given by me, I look at myself in the mirror and I say, no fuck, girl! You did it!!! Again.

And also from a very young age I learned to give myself something for having behaved well and having achieved for things, the funny thing is that sometimes reflecting I think, and why if I am a person capable of achieving X thing or y, didn't you achieve this or that?, my answer is, could it be that I was not interested? Or just because of beliefs and lack of education and knowledge I didn't see it?... But well, in the end, it's more what I'm proud of that I criticize myself for, although the one who likes to achieve nothing comforts him, too.

Small achievements? That doesn't exist, when we have staked our entire personality structure, with the right passion, discipline and motivation.

That is precisely why it is essential that when I see positive things in myself, I praise myself. When I see that I am doing very good things, I congratulate myself. When I see that I am achieving things that really cause me deep satisfaction, well, total joy and I admire myself!

Achievements are achievements! It matters what everyone feels about themselves. What comes from outside is received and appreciated, but it is not the basis of our self-esteem.

Today I am not afraid of anything, Galen, there are abilities that you develop by going out of your comfort zone, but without ever doubting yourself. And that makes me a very tenacious woman. Another example, to be writing for 365 days in Hive, among other things that I achieve every day. I celebrate my achievements, even when the situation turns adverse.

Janitze.