Signs that shows that one is codependent

in voilk •  3 months ago

    Assuming Unfair Liability:
    You might choose to accept whatever the other partner in the relationship says rather than risk an argument. To prevent conflict, you may apologize if your partner accused you for not doing something even though you forgot to do it

    Accepting on too much responsibility:
    You might spend a lot of time or energy cleaning up after your partner in an effort to win their appreciation. Even with comparable earning levels, you might be able to pay all of your bills. You enable the other person while also wearing yourself thin by doing this.


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    Obsession with the ideas or emotions of the other person:
    You can get fixated on finding out if your partner is upset and, if so, how to make things right. Since you don't pay attention to your own feelings, your mood may be a reflection of how you think they are feeling.

    Having discussed the characteristics of a codependent person, it will be worthwhile to differentiate between it and independent.

    The Codependent person doesn't have any hobby on their own, they rather enjoy the hobbies of their partner.

    While an interdependent person have their own separate hobbies but also have a common interests with which they share with their partner.

    A codependent person Always takes the blame for what ever thing that happens in relationships and feels it's their responsibility to fix things

    While

    An interdependent relationship, the both partners always look for a way to solve their problems jointly.

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