Hey guys đ it's always good to be here sharing our thoughts and ideas,well I want to talk about Adulthood,sit tight as we dive into this interesting topic of discussion.
We all know that a legal adult is a person who has reach the age of majority therefore is regarded as independent,and responsible. They may also be regarded as a âmaturedâ. The typical age of attaining legal adulthood is 18,but it also depends on the country, legal rights,and psychological development especially when it comes to psychological development,this is the central coordinator of any responsible adult, with this we can say a person is an adult.
Currently teenagers anticipate to be an adult and should be given freedom while in some cases the adults are desiring and thinking they could still be parented as when they were kids,this is the bitter reality in the lives of some adults.
When we go out to face the reality of life we are apparently open to things like
desires
choices
plans
expectations
These are the starts for any average adult out there in the society,we all grow up embracing adulthood with different desires which are always positive desires but then the choices we make stands as an immediate outcome of what we want,now when a person makes a choice that doesn't bring a good result he/she might be depressed, but âlike the saying goes that failure is not the end of life that it enable us to learn from our mistakes sit up to make the right decisionsâ, it is true but what do we think happens to that person that just failed? Now this motivation comes to comfort the person so that it can him or her to move on try other things..
Now this is were a person needs to be matured psychologically, we've been hearing of suicides every now and then these were people who had plans for their lives maybe their choices didn't yield which leads to battling in their mind and in their thoughts,in all it requires a lot of work to come out a successful adult and live a healthy and happy life.
PREPARATION;we need to be prepared to the state of knowing that not all of our plans are actually going to work out the way we want them,I know you might want to bring in the religious settings but faith does not deny a fact, it also doesn't mean we should settle for less,but having this at the back of our mind goes along way in improving the way we consider our goals and also saves lifes.
PLAN B;this part is very important in a way that weâre open to some other chances and opportunity especially in the current state of African countries now,we need to also equip our selves with divers skills,with this we are sure and good to go
SAVINGS;saving is an act that has been despised currently but I tell you that you are not saving for now but for the future, even ants works three times harder to save in the summer which we all know as the dry season.. so it can have what to eat in the raining season,the comes a time we don't have as usual that's hard times⊠but our savings can stand in for us at the main time.
They are lots more but I hope this helps us, thanks for reading I'm @sylvasticksđ€©
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