Hello Lovely Parents
Growing up we have lots of dreams and aspirations of what we want our family to be like...well, on my own part as a little girl I was not so much engrossed with the thoughts of what I wish my family to look like. What I can remember so well is that my mother always push us out whenever prayers is being said for those that wish to get married that's when we were so little.
Fast forward to when I was preparing to enter university, I was opportune to leave with a family and I began to apply some principles I learnt from my mother to the point the mother in the house kept asking me how I got to know all that. Some of which she as a married woman don't even know. Shortly I took the issue of marriage seriously though was not desperate. I made my rules and set some good boundaries for myself. One thing I said was, even if it will take me years to stay home with my kids I will do so just to make sure they have they best. This is not an easy decision at all. But I Cr to this resolution on seeing how most parents hand over their children to nannies while they face Career. Being career oriented is not bad, but of what value is the Career when your children get damaged because you failed to give them that basic training.
There a lot one can do within that can help one care for the kids then as they progress one can venture into other things. Some persons feel it's a total waste of time to do so but it's not.
Also, I will not including abusive words as I bring up my kids. First, I was not trained that way and I see it as a strange thing when parents rain abusive words on their children. Infact my children already know that Mom wouldn't take insultive words,so the ones they learnt from their pers and come home, just give a little time it just dies off.
Training children according to the standard you wish them to grow by is very important because when they eventually grows they wouldn't forget such pattern.
Thanks friends for staying with me