Hello everyone,
Greetings to all of you, today's topic is very interesting. Today I am going to talk about a deranged society where the parents' crimes or their mistakes are punished by the children. Where the children are victims of the sins committed by the parents. Although they don't know how much crime his parents have committed or about his parents' crime. Even though they are not born into the world then many people think that the child should be punished for the actions of the parents. I think this is a phenomenon that people will understand if they consider it. Because these children don't want to remember past sins. In fact, the people of this world are very cruel.
There are many types of crimes in the world every day, if someone commits a crime, they are prosecuted according to the government law. They are punished depending on the type of crime they have committed. But if the offender has children.
Children whose parents are criminals always think of themselves as criminals because their neighbors and even their friends may tell them that your father has committed this crime and your father is a criminal. He has to hear that because of which he always feels guilty. According to me this is not right at all because why should the children share the guilt of the parents. Children will not blame their parents. Because the child has no role in the crimes committed by the parents because the children did not know that their parents committed these crimes. So why should the children share in the guilt of the parents?
There are also many people who think that since parents have been nurturing their children since they were young, their happiness and sadness when the father was there to carry the child's joy, why should the child carry the parents' mistakes now? no But it is unthinkable for us to bear the mistakes we ourselves make. Especially when they are children or teenagers. At this age they are still growing and discovering what they will become when they grow up.
It may sound funny, if a parent's mistakes are passed on to his child then it affects the child's mental state a lot. No one thinks how much work will be done or how much stress will be created on the children of parents who have made mistakes or crimes if they see them as criminals. It is taking responsibility for a mistake that you have not made for others, but you are already being held responsible for this mistake.
Many people also think that their children are equally guilty because their parents have committed a crime. It is as if he sees in the child the adult thief and liar that was his father. But they don't want to understand that it is a child like his child who is growing up and discovering the world. How would you feel if someone looked at your child as a crime? So you should look at other children the same way you look at your child.
Many people don't know how to relate to their children's feelings but show some empathy towards their children.
There are many parents who tell their child that because his father steals, he is the son of a thief, so you call him the son of a thief. What you teach a child from childhood, he will learn. That child will grow up and call that son the son of a thief, so the burden of the parents' crime should not be given to the child.
It is always a chain of events that eventually rains guilt upon children whose parents have committed a crime or made a mistake. I don't like this kind of idea or superstition of people, children cannot be responsible for their parents' mistakes, so children should be brought out from these superstitions.
That's it for today!I appreciate your time and attention. At the end of this post, you can comment and let me know how you liked my post and if you have any questions, I will try to answer them inshaAllah. I hope you like it. See you soon..