It has been naturally believed that women are damsels, and damsels always want to look good. While men would own two shirts and polo with maybe 2 trousers, women own clothes and shoes that can surely start a mini shopping business. It is crazy and women love that craziness.
I do know that I love shopping, though in my case I am not a hungry shopping spree woman. I do know how to take my eyes off things even when they sweetly call my name like a lover would. Gosh, it is tempting.
Trust me, it isn't easy not to give in to such temptation. I once had a roommate who would use her feeding money to get the latest clothes on campus and come home with a pretty face to share about her shopping spree and a sorry eyes later to ask for food.
It is true that it is hard not to get things. It is like being horny for men. You'd want to satisfy that want. Just imagine being in a room full of pretty ladies with all the necessary figures in check just there waiting for you to pick them.
Humans are greedy. That can't be fully helped in some cases (in my defense of the sister code of honor 😄). You see, when you have the privilege to get as many as you want, you'll want to get all. It is like an incurable disease at times, though I have found a little way to help myself out on that.
I once saw a YouTube video, more like a short last week, which can be seen below on how women love shopping.
https://youtube.com/shorts/UIE7ShplEhk?si=6L352G-F4FLjDHSl
It is like it is in their DNA and can't be taken away. Every woman, when given the chance and if they do have the resources, they'll buy a whole shop and still complain a minute later that they have nothing to wear to a party. It is literally insane that it drives some men crazy. And, most women in these shoes can't help it because shopping brings them alive.
Studies have shown why men are hunters and women gatherers from what I understand as making sure they get the best deal by getting all the deals they set their eyes on.
Men were the hunters in our ancestral cultures, so when they find a satisfactory specimen, whether it's an elk or a pair of shoes, they want to shoot it and get out before it gets away.
Women, by contrast, were the primary gatherers in early hunter-gatherer cultures, so they feel a need to check every berry on the bush to make sure they're getting...
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It is like seeing different sorts of goodies with countless flavors. As a woman, our job is to get as many as we can. There's fun in trying out different clothes, shoes, bags, earrings, cosmetics and all, especially when they all fit nicely like they've been waiting for you for years. You can't just pick one and go... No, it would be wrong to do so. It is taboo to try doing that.
Therefore, the best way to not have a heartache and sleepless night is to get every damn one and keep them all to yourself. You see, this way, everyone will be happy.
...and I know it is very hard to understand for some men, but if you did follow up from the start, you should have gotten the gist now with the ”ladies waiting to be picked stuff” aforementioned.
Life is beautiful, and every woman loves beauty. We are emotional, which makes the logical feeling off to men's side. So, make your babe happy and give her that credit card.
You are welcome 😉.
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