What annoys you and what energises you? Name two of each and explain.
Hello great hivians happy weekend, happy Christmas in advance, I hope the week was a great one, mine was a great and surprise week.
In life, I believe in there is no impossibility except an individual create one for himself or herself, so when I see people who have full potentials, full body structure and they go around begging people for arms I feel so detested and angry because most times getting close to them you will discover that they just lack self will and confident to do something for themselves.
What annoys me
The two most important things that annoys me most personally is me not being able to communicate well with people, yeah not that I don't know how to talk but not being able to contribute to a topic of discussion at a particular point in time makes me look stupid and useless as of I am not human, I always feel so angry with myself anytime this happen to me most times I will just blame myself for not reading aboard.
Another one is anger, I get angry easily and anytime this happen, everyone around me including myself gets the blame and I will just be displaying my annoyance anyhow this alone makes it hard for me to grow with people around me because small things pissed me off.
What annoys me in others?
So many things annoys me in other people around me but I will just stick to two:
One the arrival syndrome, yeah the mentality of people working in government organization and most private place feel they need your pleads before they can attend to you. I have had so many experiences and the most recent one is going to a filling station to get fuel and the lady started talking to me as if she is my provider just because I told her I wished to buy with my rubbers, she told me I need to paid for it, meanwhile I went there to meet others pleading her with their life, if was so annoying so I told her one day she will come looking for my help, took my rubbers and left.
- another one is snoring in the public especially if I went to church all night and I want to sleep and unfortunately for me they start snoring me it annoys me alot because I will stay awake til the next day, I passionately hate snorers .
what energize me
- good communication skill: when I can freely contribute to any topic of discussion, I feel so good with pride in me. Most times even if it's not an interesting topic but I'm there saying one thing or the there I feel good.
- good clothing, I love looking good so anytime I dress well with good and new attired and I am stepping out, I will fee confidence just for the mere fact that I dress well but if opposite is the case I will be moody. Dressing well gives me self confidence, boldness, and pride.
When I have a good dress, wrist watch, my good shoe and my lenses couple with good perfume, I feel so excited on top of the world and no matter where I go to I will find myself being so happy and ready to work.
What energize me in others?
- courtesy; yeah respect to others and respecting who they are irrespective of the class difference in them. This to me makes me wished to know the person more and to continue partnering with them.
- paying attention: this attention alone will make make new friends easily. I have a friend who talks alot, tells me about her life, when I say her life, everything inclusive but lacks ability to pay attention to mine, that's why I talk to me most times.
HAPPY WEEKEND