Let me make it clear, I said my first official girlfriend because I have actually had about 4 childhood girlfriends in the past but we never had anything common or any chemistry. Also, back then I was really shy so I didn't really give my girlfriends enough time and attention and I always scared to talk to them in public. You might be wondering how I made them my girlfriends in the first place let me tell you how. We were very young then and were not allowed to take our phone to school, so what I normally do then was get the girl the facebook username of the girl I had a crush on and send her a friend request once we go on holiday since i was in the boarding school. Once she accepts , I will take my time with talking to her like a courageous guy lol 😆. After some time, i will make my move and ask her out . If she says no, i will give her time and go again but i never asked any girl out more than twice. There was even a girl i dated back then in my class, i asked her out the first time she told me no, then i decided to meet her friends to help me convince her to date me. We dated for about 1 month but it was indeed a very boring relationship.
I met my first official girlfriend in my first year in the university. She was in the art department studying international relations and i was studying agriculture. She was a fair girl with small stature but very sexy.
How did we meet??
I spoke to one of my roomates and i just asked him to share me some girls number in his department when he showed me her picture and i decided to get her number. From there, i added her on whatsapp and messaged her which she replied. We got to know each other and the vibe she gave me was just on a 100. I am the type of person who doesnt really know how to communicate with people properly but if you engage me well i willl for sure go with the flow. She was really chatty and flirty over text that i just couldnt resist that i told her we should meet , which she agreed.
We met somewhere silent in my department in the evening and i could remember she was putting on a brown top and a red skirt. I cant even remember what i wore that day. Her beauty was really captivating that i just couldnt resist starring into to her dark brown eyes and she also reciprocated. She had mad eye comtact . I didn't even know she attended the same secondary school with my step brother until that day . Afteŕ we where done, i walked her down to her hostel as the gentleman i am and said my goodbyes with a hug ☺️.
After that day, we had several conversations and we definitely met alot of times and we were loving each others company. I will tell you i actually wanted a kiss from her. Later on we met again, and now we had deeper conversations where i told her that "i have never kissed a girl before , she then goes futher and ask me what turns me on which i replied with kisses on the neck. She decided to give my first kiss . I could remember she sat me down on a chair , started kissing me on my neck and we had a proper kiss. I was indeed very happy i got my first kiss ,it was crazy, i had the feeling for the very first time wow!. I promise you this was one of the days i can't forget ever in my life.
I didnt even ask her out but we just started dating. She was a proper cool girl doesnt always demand for much and she was always satisfied with what i gave to her. I even somtimes feel i wasn"t even the right person for her because she was just amazing all round. I was someone who doesnt love phone calls, just texts and this was a barrier to our relationship as she normally complains that i dont normally call to check up on her.
We dated for months and things where just going smoothly. Until a day came, we we were taking a walk in the school compound and she was just acting suspicious with the way she was pressing her phone but I didn't say anything. Afterwards, she just asked me to open my phone for her to see what's there, i was adamant at first but I later unlocked my phone and gave her to see what was there. In order not to get mugged off I just made use of that opportunity to tell her to do the same which she did and she gave me her phone. It was at this point, I believed those who said never go through your partners phone . I went through her WhatsApp when i saw her save a guy as her bestfriend . I was just curious and took it upon myself to read their chats. It was at this time I had the flashbacks of what my Nigerian students do say "Never believe girls who have male best friends". I went through the messages and I was just so shocked and devastated by what I saw. They were just been lovey dovey that I just had to collect my phone from her, dropped her own phone and left in annoyance.
She messaged me severally after that day but I didn't reply .I wasn't just giving her the right energy anymore . I would have loved to continue with the relationship but i just couldn't trust her any longer and decided we part ways. "A relationship without trust is never going to move forward or even last long".
It wasn't an easy decision for me as I still had feelings for her and i still miss the times we shared and the memories we had.
Thanks for reading.
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