Hello, our community, unfortunately, we often see cases of separation or divorce of spouses, and I see how much this affects the children
Divorce or separation of father and mother is one of the social problems that has unfortunately become common in this world these days. There is no doubt that such a problem can affect the child’s psychology, emotional development, and personality
Many people ask: Is it normal for children of divorce to fear and hesitate when they accept the project of marriage and starting a family? How can they deal with this fear? How can it be transformed into positive energy that drives success and an initiative to create a happy family and raise good children?
In light of broken families exposed to constant problems or divorced parents, children suffer many problems, especially with regard to forming relationships due to the poor relationship of their parents before and after the divorce, or because they received bad treatment from one or both parents, and thus this mental image is reflected in their life partner and the closest people. To them, as a result of anxiety about the future and loss of confidence caused by feelings stored in the subconscious mind
The continuation of life between spouses despite constant quarrels or emotional separation without divorce gives the children a message that quarrels are only fuel for the continuation of the marriage, while another section of them has a strong enthusiasm for marriage, and at the same time a strong desire not to expose the children to what they were exposed to in the past
Divorce is not inherited, especially to the children of divorce, because it serves as a lesson for them, and those about to get married must stay away from anxiety and think about negative things, and remember the beautiful things and positives of marriage. All children of divorce have feelings of fear and anxiety at one moment, especially with regard to the issue of marriage, as it is a stage. Transitional for the individual, but the problem lies in allowing these negative feelings to control them @youm